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		<title>Comment on Those Who Do Not Study History&#8230; by RickStar</title>
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		<dc:creator>RickStar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jul 2011 03:01:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>looks like a cucumber .. </description>
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		<title>Comment on Keys to Better Sex Revealed by RickStar</title>
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		<dc:creator>RickStar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jul 2011 02:58:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>With todays schedules and work .. sex is getting harder to make time for ... </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With todays schedules and work .. sex is getting harder to make time for &#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Making pre-marital &#8220;appearance deals&#8221;&#8230; by Sunlover</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sunlover</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jul 2011 14:12:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting idea - but its youth talking without the wisdom of time - much more important is a mutual commitment to work at staying physically attractive to each other. &quot;I promise to not get dumpy.&quot;

Goes for both partners, of course. Once you&#039;ve been married for 20 or 30 years, long or short hair and hats or no hats pale in comparison to &quot;he/she is still hot&quot; or better yet, hotter than ever. It&#039;s doable but ya gotta work at it and pay attention!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting idea &#8211; but its youth talking without the wisdom of time &#8211; much more important is a mutual commitment to work at staying physically attractive to each other. &#8220;I promise to not get dumpy.&#8221;</p>
<p>Goes for both partners, of course. Once you&#8217;ve been married for 20 or 30 years, long or short hair and hats or no hats pale in comparison to &#8220;he/she is still hot&#8221; or better yet, hotter than ever. It&#8217;s doable but ya gotta work at it and pay attention!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Making pre-marital &#8220;appearance deals&#8221;&#8230; by Felicia Francis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Felicia Francis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2011 22:51:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Keep up the fantastic work. I&#039;ve been researching, orgasms and yours is one of the most informative websites I&#039;ve found. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Keep up the fantastic work. I&#8217;ve been researching, orgasms and yours is one of the most informative websites I&#8217;ve found.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Keys to Better Sex Revealed by Tanis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tanis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2011 16:04:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>With my husband working out of town&quot;great sex&quot; ends up by taking some planning.  Two years ago when he was away we discovered that although we were able to keep connected through SKYPE, something was missing. I ended up feeling like a &quot;booty call&quot; when he came home, and he felt like a &quot;paycheck&quot;.  We had come very disconnected.

Now with him away, we have less modes of communication- no SKYPE,internet, or cell phone.  He is home more frequently , but for less time.  We have kids, a home and things to do before he can go back, all the while his work phone is ringing. There are high demands for his attention, and mine, and but the end of the night we are exhausted- but we are determined not to fall back into that trap. So, while the kids are at school, the first morning he is at home, Its our time. We might go out and run errands, do some shopping or just sit back and enjoy a coffee together, and talk- about everyrthing. It gets us re-connected, and before I know it, we&#039;re enjoying some serious Mommy- Daddy time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With my husband working out of town&#8221;great sex&#8221; ends up by taking some planning.  Two years ago when he was away we discovered that although we were able to keep connected through SKYPE, something was missing. I ended up feeling like a &#8220;booty call&#8221; when he came home, and he felt like a &#8220;paycheck&#8221;.  We had come very disconnected.</p>
<p>Now with him away, we have less modes of communication- no SKYPE,internet, or cell phone.  He is home more frequently , but for less time.  We have kids, a home and things to do before he can go back, all the while his work phone is ringing. There are high demands for his attention, and mine, and but the end of the night we are exhausted- but we are determined not to fall back into that trap. So, while the kids are at school, the first morning he is at home, Its our time. We might go out and run errands, do some shopping or just sit back and enjoy a coffee together, and talk- about everyrthing. It gets us re-connected, and before I know it, we&#8217;re enjoying some serious Mommy- Daddy time.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Hint #50 by Andy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 May 2011 21:05:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes this works I do this to my wife</description>
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		<title>Comment on Bikinis for 7 year olds!?!? by Heather</title>
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		<dc:creator>Heather</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Apr 2011 04:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh my.
Thanks for making the point about being good parents vs. being popular. Sometimes I feel SO unpopular.  Not that my 7 year old is asking to wear bikinis, but I needed to be reminded today that there&#039;s nothing wrong with being unpopular with my kids.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my.<br />
Thanks for making the point about being good parents vs. being popular. Sometimes I feel SO unpopular.  Not that my 7 year old is asking to wear bikinis, but I needed to be reminded today that there&#8217;s nothing wrong with being unpopular with my kids.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Practice Makes Perfect (even in sex) by Eryn-Faye Frans</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eryn-Faye Frans</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Mar 2011 17:01:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Sherman!  You are a big part of all this.  Thanks for making everything web-tastic!!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Practice Makes Perfect (even in sex) by Sherman Hu</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sherman Hu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Mar 2011 15:13:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So proud of the journey &amp; process you&#039;re working through, Eryn-Faye - arms or no arms! :-) It&#039;s the same, unsexy process top athletes go through in their daily training (with no applause or recognition) to be their best at public events, and your daily diligence, along with your team&#039;s coaching is going to propel you to be the best at what you do! WOOT!!

Here&#039;s to your multiples... victories, that is! </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So proud of the journey &amp; process you&#8217;re working through, Eryn-Faye &#8211; arms or no arms! <img src='http://erynfaye.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  It&#8217;s the same, unsexy process top athletes go through in their daily training (with no applause or recognition) to be their best at public events, and your daily diligence, along with your team&#8217;s coaching is going to propel you to be the best at what you do! WOOT!!</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s to your multiples&#8230; victories, that is!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Sexual Education Should Begin&#8230; by Tweets that mention Sexual Education Should Begin… : Eryn-Faye Frans &#124; Canada’s Passion Coach -- Topsy.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tweets that mention Sexual Education Should Begin… : Eryn-Faye Frans &#124; Canada’s Passion Coach -- Topsy.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Feb 2011 20:54:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Want a Better Sex Life? by Eryn-Faye Frans</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eryn-Faye Frans</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Feb 2011 15:53:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Shula!  Good to see you back around and writing again!!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Want a Better Sex Life? by Shula</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shula</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Feb 2011 20:40:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wholeheartedly agree, Eryn-Faye. I had a conversation with a dear friend about this subject and came to the conclusion that &lt;i&gt;&quot;desire is one thing but engineering is another. And when you consider the human body from an engineering standpoint, some things function better when the weight bearing load is more easily sustainable and cardiovascular health involving happy blood flow in happy capillaries can make for some REALLY happy people.&quot;&lt;/i&gt; 
(grin) You know that would motivate me. 
I exercise most every day.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wholeheartedly agree, Eryn-Faye. I had a conversation with a dear friend about this subject and came to the conclusion that <i>&#8220;desire is one thing but engineering is another. And when you consider the human body from an engineering standpoint, some things function better when the weight bearing load is more easily sustainable and cardiovascular health involving happy blood flow in happy capillaries can make for some REALLY happy people.&#8221;</i><br />
(grin) You know that would motivate me.<br />
I exercise most every day.</p>
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		<title>Comment on O Christmas Tree, O Christmas Tree by Melatonin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melatonin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Feb 2011 15:24:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>.&#039;: that seems to be a great topic, i really love it .*-</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>.&#8217;: that seems to be a great topic, i really love it .*-</p>
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		<title>Comment on Sex is Like Typing by shwc</title>
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		<dc:creator>shwc</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Feb 2011 08:53:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congratulations on the switch!

-from a mac fan who types using a Devorak keyboard layout.

Thinking differently is a highly developed and extremely rewarding skill.
:-)</description>
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<p>-from a mac fan who types using a Devorak keyboard layout.</p>
<p>Thinking differently is a highly developed and extremely rewarding skill.<br />
 <img src='http://erynfaye.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Want a Better Sex Life? by Tweets that mention Want a Better Sex Life? : Eryn-Faye Frans &#124; Canada’s Passion Coach -- Topsy.com</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Feb 2011 20:29:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Eryn-Faye and Eryn-Faye Frans, Zoe Mmmmmm. Zoe Mmmmmm said: Want a Better Sex Life? : Eryn-Faye Frans &#124; Canada&#039;s Passion Coach: Want a better Sex Life? Then exercise! Jilli... http://bit.ly/g1oMkl [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Eryn-Faye and Eryn-Faye Frans, Zoe Mmmmmm. Zoe Mmmmmm said: Want a Better Sex Life? : Eryn-Faye Frans | Canada&#039;s Passion Coach: Want a better Sex Life? Then exercise! Jilli&#8230; <a href="http://bit.ly/g1oMkl" rel="nofollow">bit.ly/g1oMkl</a> [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Obesity: Problem, Solution, or Both? by Tweets that mention Obesity: Problem, Solution, or Both? : Eryn-Faye Frans &#124; Canada’s Passion Coach -- Topsy.com</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Dec 2010 18:02:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Eryn-Faye and Eryn-Faye, Eryn-Faye Frans. Eryn-Faye Frans said: Obesity: Problem, Solution or Both? http://ow.ly/3p3KG [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on Do Men Fake Orgasms? by Tweets that mention Do Men Fake Orgasms? : Eryn-Faye Frans &#124; Canada’s Passion Coach -- Topsy.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tweets that mention Do Men Fake Orgasms? : Eryn-Faye Frans &#124; Canada’s Passion Coach -- Topsy.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Dec 2010 05:18:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Eryn-Faye, Eryn-Faye Frans. Eryn-Faye Frans said: Men Who Fake Orgasm http://ow.ly/3mVgJ - what do you think? [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Eryn-Faye, Eryn-Faye Frans. Eryn-Faye Frans said: Men Who Fake Orgasm <a href="http://ow.ly/3mVgJ" rel="nofollow">ow.ly/3mVgJ</a> &#8211; what do you think? [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Language Affects Intimacy by Tweets that mention Language Affects Intimacy : Eryn-Faye Frans &#124; Canada’s Passion Coach -- Topsy.com</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Nov 2010 04:09:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Eryn-Faye and Eryn-Faye, Eryn-Faye Frans. Eryn-Faye Frans said: Language affects intimacy according to this article http://ow.ly/3eF2n - Do you think how your lover talks to you can affect your intimacy? [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on Mommy Madness Mistake by Eryn-Faye Frans</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eryn-Faye Frans</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Nov 2010 20:23:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dawn thank you so much for sharing.  Your honesty is inspiring.  My heart truly goes out to you - and I don&#039;t mean that to sound like I am taking away from the life you have lived and the love your children and husband feel from you on a daily basis.  But I do believe that you matter too!  Your happiness really does factor in dear lady.  I understand the overwhelming feeling that you imply when you said, &quot;it&#039;s the best I can do for now.&quot;  Most of us can sum our life up in similar fashion - but keep an eye on tomorrow too.  You do need to take care of yourself and have your needs met too. And those same family members that you pour so much into, have the capacity to pour right back into you.  You are in my thoughts lady.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dawn thank you so much for sharing.  Your honesty is inspiring.  My heart truly goes out to you &#8211; and I don&#8217;t mean that to sound like I am taking away from the life you have lived and the love your children and husband feel from you on a daily basis.  But I do believe that you matter too!  Your happiness really does factor in dear lady.  I understand the overwhelming feeling that you imply when you said, &#8220;it&#8217;s the best I can do for now.&#8221;  Most of us can sum our life up in similar fashion &#8211; but keep an eye on tomorrow too.  You do need to take care of yourself and have your needs met too. And those same family members that you pour so much into, have the capacity to pour right back into you.  You are in my thoughts lady.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Mommy Madness Mistake by Dawn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dawn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Nov 2010 15:01:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I truly think my first marriage ended in divorce (and the unfaithfulness of my then husband) because I was &#039;child centric&#039;. As my children came, I was very devoted to them, although I thought I was devoted to my husband as well. It was a shock when my husband spouted he wanted a divorce. A mother and wife can only spread herself so thin. 
I&#039;ve come to realize that men (for the most part) are like children and need attention and praise as such. Having been raised in the household I was, I was determined to break the chain of dysfunction with my own children. And I did. Little did I know that having a husband that needs a lot of attention as well would take it&#039;s toll.  
It&#039;s been 16 years since becoming a mother and these past 16 years has been the hardest job, yet the most devotion I&#039;ve had to a job as well.  And I&#039;ve taken for granted that I don&#039;t need to be &#039;taken care of&#039;. I take care of myself. And my needs and wants fall by the wayside a lot. 
I am now married again - and I feel that I am still child centric. It&#039;s in my blood. And as a lot of women do, I spread myself thin- mothering my children as well as my husband. 
I guess, I&#039;ve given up on the notion of an &#039;equal&#039; marriage and play the martyr because that&#039;s the &#039;easiest&#039; way to go.  Is it ideal? Nope. And honestly, there never seems to be enough time to sort all through this - so I go on. Mommie-ing and wife-ing. 
Trying to change a man, is futile. I feel, as long as everyone else is happy and taken care of, my job is done. And...it&#039;s the best I can do for now. 
My thoughts on child centric parenting seems to teeter on the edge of insanity. I mean, to each his own and every situation is different. There is a spectrum of this type of parenting, I feel.  Child centric can be me...or that crazy mother who dolls her daughter up and lives vicariously through her, shoving her in pageants and so on. Am I the perfect parent? No. Am I a &#039;better&#039; parent than I was given? Definitely.  There are so many more facets to my life than the devotion I give my children....and by facets I mean drama and ghosts and anger and issues. That&#039;s just my nutbarism in a barrell and my 2 cents.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I truly think my first marriage ended in divorce (and the unfaithfulness of my then husband) because I was &#8216;child centric&#8217;. As my children came, I was very devoted to them, although I thought I was devoted to my husband as well. It was a shock when my husband spouted he wanted a divorce. A mother and wife can only spread herself so thin.<br />
I&#8217;ve come to realize that men (for the most part) are like children and need attention and praise as such. Having been raised in the household I was, I was determined to break the chain of dysfunction with my own children. And I did. Little did I know that having a husband that needs a lot of attention as well would take it&#8217;s toll.<br />
It&#8217;s been 16 years since becoming a mother and these past 16 years has been the hardest job, yet the most devotion I&#8217;ve had to a job as well.  And I&#8217;ve taken for granted that I don&#8217;t need to be &#8216;taken care of&#8217;. I take care of myself. And my needs and wants fall by the wayside a lot.<br />
I am now married again &#8211; and I feel that I am still child centric. It&#8217;s in my blood. And as a lot of women do, I spread myself thin- mothering my children as well as my husband.<br />
I guess, I&#8217;ve given up on the notion of an &#8216;equal&#8217; marriage and play the martyr because that&#8217;s the &#8216;easiest&#8217; way to go.  Is it ideal? Nope. And honestly, there never seems to be enough time to sort all through this &#8211; so I go on. Mommie-ing and wife-ing.<br />
Trying to change a man, is futile. I feel, as long as everyone else is happy and taken care of, my job is done. And&#8230;it&#8217;s the best I can do for now.<br />
My thoughts on child centric parenting seems to teeter on the edge of insanity. I mean, to each his own and every situation is different. There is a spectrum of this type of parenting, I feel.  Child centric can be me&#8230;or that crazy mother who dolls her daughter up and lives vicariously through her, shoving her in pageants and so on. Am I the perfect parent? No. Am I a &#8216;better&#8217; parent than I was given? Definitely.  There are so many more facets to my life than the devotion I give my children&#8230;.and by facets I mean drama and ghosts and anger and issues. That&#8217;s just my nutbarism in a barrell and my 2 cents.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Tweets that mention The 5 Flirting Languages : Eryn-Faye Frans &#124; Canada’s Passion Coach -- Topsy.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Nov 2010 16:26:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Eryn-Faye, Eryn-Faye Frans. Eryn-Faye Frans said: Are you a physical, traditional, polite, sincere or playful flirt? http://ow.ly/36RLe [...]</description>
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		<dc:creator>Tweets that mention University of Indiana Sex Study : Eryn-Faye Frans &#124; Canada’s Passion Coach -- Topsy.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Nov 2010 20:27:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Eryn-Faye, RedSnapper. RedSnapper said: For my tweeps who love sex- University of Indiana Sex Study http://t.co/xvrn6iN [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on University of Indiana Sex Study by Gerald</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gerald</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Nov 2010 16:43:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The news made a big deal about the study when it first came out. Especially the condom usage among adults. But what I found interesting (and although I have heard a lot of press on the news about th results of the study, no one commented on this aspect) the acts that fall into the &quot;same sex&quot; variety fall below the much touted &quot;10% of the population are gay&quot; stat. Re-inforces the inaccuracy of that stat. Follow the link to the article and then click to see the chart. 
Or am I just reading it all wrong.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The news made a big deal about the study when it first came out. Especially the condom usage among adults. But what I found interesting (and although I have heard a lot of press on the news about th results of the study, no one commented on this aspect) the acts that fall into the &#8220;same sex&#8221; variety fall below the much touted &#8220;10% of the population are gay&#8221; stat. Re-inforces the inaccuracy of that stat. Follow the link to the article and then click to see the chart.<br />
Or am I just reading it all wrong.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Post Halloween Reflections by Eryn-Faye Frans</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eryn-Faye Frans</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Nov 2010 02:38:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Homecomings can be sweet times!!  Thanks for commenting!  Let us know how it goes - well, maybe not the things that can&#039;t be done on Skype!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Homecomings can be sweet times!!  Thanks for commenting!  Let us know how it goes &#8211; well, maybe not the things that can&#8217;t be done on Skype!</p>
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		<dc:creator>Tweets that mention Post Halloween Reflections : Eryn-Faye Frans &#124; Canada’s Passion Coach -- Topsy.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Nov 2010 16:56:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Jeff Gingerich, Susan Knight. Susan Knight said: Great read from my favourite Passion Coach @erynfaye &gt;&gt; http://ht.ly/33OPY [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Jeff Gingerich, Susan Knight. Susan Knight said: Great read from my favourite Passion Coach @erynfaye &gt;&gt; <a href="http://ht.ly/33OPY" rel="nofollow">ht.ly/33OPY</a> [...]</p>
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		<dc:creator>Susan Knight</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Nov 2010 15:41:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent plan! As I am provinces away from him at the moment it will have to make for a &quot;next week&quot; challenge, as some thing should not be done on skype!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent plan! As I am provinces away from him at the moment it will have to make for a &#8220;next week&#8221; challenge, as some thing should not be done on skype!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Personality &#8211; Why Him/Why Her by Alison</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2010 21:44:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ha ha! The first half of my comment that made the rest even funnier didn&#039;t make it!  Will send our results to the quiz for your amusement...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ha ha! The first half of my comment that made the rest even funnier didn&#8217;t make it!  Will send our results to the quiz for your amusement&#8230;</p>
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		<dc:creator>Eryn-Faye Frans</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2010 21:33:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s what I am here for Alison!  Look forward to talking with you soon!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s what I am here for Alison!  Look forward to talking with you soon!!</p>
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		<link>http://erynfaye.com/personality-why-himwhy-her/comment-page-1/#comment-636</link>
		<dc:creator>Alison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Oct 2010 03:01:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description> I think I should have a better sex life... may require coaching! : )</description>
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		<dc:creator>Eryn-Faye Frans</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2010 17:07:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for sharing that Ami!  As I said, I love personality tests!  They can e such useful tools.  As long as we don&#039;t use them to excuse poor actions, but rather to as you said, open eyes and create a deeper connection, then they really are amazing!  Anything that creates more respect and understanding is great for a relationship!  That&#039;s at the core of healthy relationship.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for sharing that Ami!  As I said, I love personality tests!  They can e such useful tools.  As long as we don&#8217;t use them to excuse poor actions, but rather to as you said, open eyes and create a deeper connection, then they really are amazing!  Anything that creates more respect and understanding is great for a relationship!  That&#8217;s at the core of healthy relationship.</p>
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