Dear Eryn-Faye,
My wife’s orgasms are painful. It is pleasing for her up until just after she orgasms. The orgasms first is pleasureful then immediately is becomes excruciatingly painful. What could cause this? How can this be treated so that when she has an orgasm it doesn’t hurt.
My immediate recommendation is that your wife should visit a doctor – preferably a specialist in obstetrics and gynecology. The symptoms that she is having might be indicative of a deeper issue which requires medical attention. While I am not a doctor, I have seen this issue before in my years of coaching women, and the issue is often uteral in nature (ie: endometriosis, Pelvic Inflammatory Disease, etc.). The doctor will most likely ask questions about the length of time she has experienced this pain, where it is located, how long it lasts for and so forth. I would strongly urge you to get answers for this issue as it is not a typical experience.
Thank you so much for reaching out to us with this significant question. Obviously, we want to see your relationship with your wife grow and deepen (and be free from painful orgasms too!!). If you have any further questions or comments, I would love to hear from you again!
Warmly,
Eryn-Faye, Passion Coach
2 Responses to Pain During Orgasm
I experienced a period of painful orgasms during my first pregnancy. My husband and I had to learn to anticipate a little and stop short of full climax for me, and get a little creative at times to find other ways to maintain a level of intimacy we wanted.
This is obviously not a permanent solution, and I echo Eryn-Faye’s advice to see a doctor to find the cause of the pain, but thought it might be helpful in the meantime.
Carol,
Thanks so much for sharing your experiences as well. I am a HUGE fan of us all sharing with each other so that we all realize that we are not alone – because we aren’t. Everybody’s stories matter, because we can all learn from each other.