Dear Eryn-Faye,

I was wondering…I’ve had the privilege of making my girlfriend “squirt” by stimulating her G-Spot. She said it was the most incredible orgasm and it really was a full body orgasm for sure but I was wondering what the whole phenomenon was. What actually comes out of a woman when she has this type of orgasm? And (come on let’s face it) she has them back to back and as many times as I give them to her…HOW FAIR IS THAT!!!??? LOL!

Let me start by saying that you are a very lucky man! Not a lot of women ever even look for, much less find, their G-spot.  And even fewer have ejaculation, and yet the women who do describe it as one of the best experiences they have ever had. I am a firm believer that we can all find our G-spots; it just takes time, practice and trust in our lover.

You have asked an excellent question about the ejaculate that comes out during a G-spot orgasm. Many women who experience this ejaculate are fearful that they are peeing the bed. However, there have been studies done on it and it is similar to seminal fluid, it just obviously doesn’t have the semen in it. While the ejaculate does come from the urethra (the same place that we pee from), it is very different than urine. You will find that it has a sweet scent (as opposed to the pungent smell of urine), it is clear (rather than yellow), and it won’t stain the bed sheets. There can, however, be quite a bit of fluid that comes out, so make sure you have towels handy if you don’t want to soak the bed.

As for that last part…life’s not fair! We get multiple orgasms and you don’t have to go through childbirth.  Grass is always greener on the other side my friend…

Again, thanks for such a great question!

Warmly,

Eryn-Faye, Passion Coach